Morning Vibes With Dr. Jerry - the First

Tuesday     31st October 2017 Morning Vibes With Dr. Jerry - the First Hello and welcome to #MorningVibesWithDrJerryTheFirst-Episode 57 Title:          Don't Ever Stop Believing She married the man who had been her heart-throb right from when she was a teen, he was a long distance truck driver and she was a home maker; they had two kids in quick succession (two boys) and then tragedy struck, he was involved in a head-on collision on a night trip and he passed on leaving her stranded alongside her kids. The Children were 7 and 5 when their Father died, leaving them alone in the world with no other relatives except their Mother. She determined to raise her kids the best way she could and so she picked up house- keeping jobs. First it was a 3 pm to 9 pm job which gave her time to prepare her kids for the Primary School, bring them back before setting out for the job. She did that for 3 years and with increasing responsibilities, she decided to pick a

Monday     30th October 2017 Morning Vibes With Dr. Jerry - the First Hello and welcome to #MorningVibesWithDrJerryTheFirst-Episode 56 Title:          Are You Exuding Negative And Bad Vibes? Check Well!!! When a man (or woman) is at peace with himself (or herself), then s/he is in tune with the Universe. When you’re in tune with the Universe you not only know what steps to take in your life and instinctively can go with the flow, but you know when others are in alignment with you, as well as when others are sending off bad vibes to you. People don’t have to be intentionally sending off bad vibes. They could be feeling insecure around you, jealous of you or angry with you, all of which have the effect of sending off negative energy your way. Bad vibes are simply an energetic display of negative emotion. If you’re aware of the energy around you, you’ll know when bad vibes are around because they simply do not feel good. You can pick up bad vibes anywhere

Sunday       29th October 2017 Morning Vibes With Dr. Jerry - the First Hello and welcome to #MorningVibesWithDrJerryTheFirst-Episode 55 Title:          Why Limit Yourself? You Surely Can Be More Than You Are At The Present! It pains me to see men and women who have the capacity to be more than they are at the present but who prefer not to rock the boat but to be as they are, they really are not aware of what opportunities they are missing in making greater impact on the world around them than they are doing at the moment. And this attitude of limiting ourselves must have been engrained in us while growing up, with all the harsh words of our parents "you will never amount to much"; " you will continue to run around in a circle"; "your children will do to you what you are doing to me"; e.t.c.; those words that severely damaged our psyche and made us feel that we shall not be useful again in the world. Are you in that s

Saturday    28th October 2017 Morning Vibes With Dr. Jerry - the First Hello and welcome to #MorningVibesWithDrJerryTheFirst-Episode 54 Title:          It's Never Too Late To Choose A New Path! Most children that have overbearing parents have ended up studying courses they really have no passion for simply because that is what their dominant parent wanted them to study and all because of the prestige and respect attached to those courses. There are many Lawyers today who acquired the wig to please their parents but are more at home discussing Estates and their Management; there are Medical Doctors who acquired the stethoscope to please their parents but are more at home with singing and dancing; there are many Architects who want nothing to do with architecture but more with app development and programming e.t.c. This goes to substantiate the saying that "No one is his or her profession" Many are stuck in a profession they have no callin

Friday         27th October 2017 Morning Vibes With Dr. Jerry - the First Hello and welcome to #MorningVibesWithDrJerryTheFirst-Episode 53 Title:          Stop Whining, Man Up!! Have you ever been in the company of someone whose major stock in trade is "whining"? oh dear, you would wish to be transported out of his or her presence by an unseen private jet. The other day, I was in the company of one. I didn't even know he was to be my seat neighbour because he started his whining right from the departure hall, nothing was right, the workers were sloppy, the security men was distracted, some girls were dressed to kill and then they complain of being raped; on and on  he went. I was seated first and then came the other seat neighbour, and then the man. As soon as he sat down and fastened his seat belt, he introduced himself to me and as courtesy would demand, I also introduced myself to him; and because I was already conscious that he was t

Thursday    26th October 2017 Morning Vibes With Dr. Jerry - the First Hello and welcome to #MorningVibesWithDrJerryTheFirst-Episode 52 Title:          You Think You Can, You Think You Cannot, Either Way You Are Right!! This famous quote is attributed to that great mind Henry Ford, who though an "illiterate" in his days but had to drive "literate" men to work for him and helped him not only develop the then very popular Ford Model T -car in 1908 but also developed the assembly line mode of production that revolutionized the Industry and this made him a World Famous Company Head. Henry Ford did not invent the automobile. He didn’t even invent the assembly line. But more than any other single individual, he was responsible for transforming the automobile from an invention of unknown utility into an innovation that profoundly shaped the 20th century and continues to affect our lives today. Innovators change things. They take new ideas,

Wednesday        25th October 2017 Morning Vibes With Dr. Jerry - the First Hello and welcome to #MorningVibesWithDrJerryTheFirst-Episode 51 Title:          Will Your Tomorrow Thank You For Your Actions Today? In one of my past broadcasts, I told you of the 65 year old man whom I met as he was performing the job of "Pay loader" and whom I took up a discussion with and in the process he told me his life story, which though pathetic as it were, but is not really far fetched from the lives of many other persons who suffered from deprivation and lack in their childhood due to parental poverty but who out of sheer doggedness were able to extricate themselves from the dangerous clutches of poverty and become who and what they are today. I do not really like blaming people for past mistakes they had made because for them it would be of no use as no 65 year old man would ever become 40 again no matter how hard he tries, but sometimes, I discuss thes

Tuesday     24th October 2017 Morning Vibes With Dr. Jerry - the First Hello and welcome to #MorningVibesWithDrJerryTheFirst-Episode 50 Title:          If You Don't Understand It, Don't Just Condemn, Ask!!! Yesterday, I had created a post on #Bitcoin: The New Face of Money and some guy from somewhere, who is not even my friend on facebook or my follower pounced on the post, condemning it with all vitriolic acidity and just failed short of insulting my person in the process. He called it a scam!!! I was shocked beyond words and took him on; I asked him what his pedigree was to be able to make such a sweeping allegation against the world's most highly priced digital currency as at the moment, and all he could say was that as far as he was concerned, bitcoin is the greatest scam in the world right now. He was neither willing to substantiate that claim nor was he available for further discussions. I checked out his profile, but not much about

Monday     23rd October 2017 Morning Vibes With Dr. Jerry - the First Hello and welcome to #MorningVibesWithDrJerryTheFirst-Episode 49 Title:          Why Worry Over What You Can't Control? It amazes me how much mankind worries over things he has can't control. It does appear that man is made to worry. When we are young we worry if we will ever become old, and how we would look by then; when we are single we worry if we will ever get married; when we get married we worry if we will ever have kids; when we have kids we worry if they will ever turn out well; we worry when they are in the primary school, we worry when they are in the secondary school, we worry when they are in the University, we worry when they are unable to land a good job, we worry when they get a job and have no accommodation, we worry if they will ever marry and give us grand children. We worry when things are going well and smooth for us; we worry when the times become da

Sunday       22nd October 2017 Morning Vibes With Dr. Jerry - the First Hello and welcome to #MorningVibesWithDrJerryTheFirst-Episode 48 Title:          Stop Complaining! Stop Whining, Stop Murmuring! Stop Hissing! Stop Sighing! Just Stop!!! Over the years, I have trained myself to just ignore complaints and unnecessary bickering which men from time to time tend to get involved with but yesterday I could not hold it back again when I met someone online who was just busy complaining about any and every thing under the sun. At a point, I sent the words of this broadcast to him - Stop Complaining!, Stop Whining!, Stop Murmuring!, Stop Hissing!, Stop Sighing!, Just Stop!! My attitude of ignoring people who complain a lot is due to the fact that I have learnt that man is simply insatiable, his greed and avarice are beyond comparison, he can allow his imagination to run wild, thus feeding his ego and making him believe that without him the world cannot move

Saturday    21st October 2017 Morning Vibes With Dr. Jerry - the First Hello and welcome to #MorningVibesWithDrJerryTheFirst-Episode 47 Title:          Your Dream Doesn't Have An Expiration Date! In our broadcast yesterday we discussed the topic "Every Problem Has An Expiry Date" and wow, it received loads of views and clicks. Just to say thank you to all of you who took out time to read the post and to visit the Blog. Closely following on that topic, we want to discuss today on the topic "Your Dream Doesn't Have An Expiration Date". What is that dream that you have held in your mind ever since you were a kid? To be famous?, to be Powerful?, to  be Rich?, to Travel the world?, to own lots of sports cars?, to own a Private Jet?, to be a Big Time Business Person?, to be the most talked about On Air Personality (OAP)?, to be the most sought after Online Personality (OLP)? what? And have you achieved it? If you have not, what has

Friday         20th October 2017 Morning Vibes With Dr. Jerry - the First Hello and welcome to #MorningVibesWithDrJerryTheFirst-Episode 46 Title:          Every Problem Has An Expiry Date! Yesterday I was in the company of an accomplished man. I had taken him on in discussing the problems of these times and he just said to me, Doctor, believe me when I tell you that "every problem has an expiry date". I told him that I believe him and asked him if he has had any personal experience that led him to such a conclusion? He didn't just say yes, but he proceeded to tell me an abridged story of his life, which was a story of "rags to riches" or "grass to grace" whichever you deem fit to accept. He had passed through several difficulties, struggles, challenges, and had once even given up on himself until he had a dream that brought him back to the track to make something of himself before he passes on. He had endured hardship

Thursday    19th October 2017 Morning Vibes With Dr. Jerry - the First Hello and welcome to #MorningVibesWithDrJerryTheFirst-Episode 45 Title:          So You Want To Be A Millionaire? I remember in those days when I was a Teacher, I used to enjoy listening to young people as they talked about their future either in answer to the question "What would you like to be when you grow up?" or when they are together and just chatting over relevancies and irrelevancies. Most of the times, these young people would always say "I want to be a Millionaire" and when I want to have them speak out their minds in the Class outside the teaching of Chemistry and Biology, I would ask the question "who wants to be a millionaire?" and you would see a number of hands go up, and that would start another round of talks on what they would do when they become millionaires. In my life time, I have seen some of these my students actually make it t

Wednesday        18th October 2017 Morning Vibes With Dr. Jerry - the First Hello and welcome to #MorningVibesWithDrJerryTheFirst-Episode 44 Title:          You're Neither A Mistake Nor An Accident Of Birth! A boy meets a girl and stuff happens and then the girl becomes pregnant but not out of choice; now she has a choice, either abort or keep, the guy wants an abortion, the girl is afraid for her life, so she wants to keep the pregnancy; the boy threatens her and when she remains adamant, he disappears into the thin air allowing her to carry the full load of the pregnancy along with taking care of herself all alone and then the baby is born without a Father and his or her travails start. The Baby-Mother must find a tale to tell her baby what happened to his or her Father, but as the kid mixes up with others, s/he would begin to be taunted as a "bastard" "illegitimate" child and that would change his or her life forever. S/he is mad

Tuesday 17th October 2017 Morning Vibes With Dr. Jerry - the First Hello and welcome to #MorningVibesWithDrJerryTheFirst-Episode 43 Title:          Have You Lost Hope? Things happen in life which leave us breathless and fill us with the thoughts that life is worthless and that all hope is lost. That would surely be the first thought because on second thoughts we would realize that not all hope is lost afterall, that there is a remnant of hope left somewhere that we can tap into and continue the journey of life. I read the story of a man who was extremely very wealthy and rich in the real sense. He had loads of men servants and maids, loads of cattle, sheep, goat, farm lands that yielded bountiful harvest in their due season, but then one day, just one horrible day, he lost it all. In one fell swoop he lost all that he had laboured to  possess over the years all of his life. In utter amazement of those who broke the news to him, all he could find to say