Wednesday 13th
December 2017
Morning Vibes With Dr. Jerry - the First
Hello and welcome to
#MorningVibesWithDrJerryTheFirst-Episode 100
Title: When
You Know Better, You Do Better!!
At
some point in life, we all are guilty of berating ourselves for mistakes made
in the past or even undermining our own integrity and thus wallowing in self
pity. We tend to be very harsh on ourselves at
times. We have this idea of who we want to be and how we want to behave towards
ourselves and others on a daily basis, and whenever that behavior is not
aligned with this ideal, we tend to get very critical and judgemental. This is something that happens to a lot of people.
Many of us are our own worst critics and we are so hard on ourselves. We blame
and criticize ourselves for things we might have done in the past, failing to
realize that the past is in the past. On the other hand
some of us are Master Crusaders against anyone who has failed at one time in
their past or even failed consistently out of repeated criticism. These
crucifiers behave like they have never made any mistakes of their own in their
lives but that is a big lie. Who has lived and hasn't made mistakes?, Not one
person. Whatever your story may be, however gross the mistakes you made in the past
may be, it is very essential that you don't hold yourself hostage to who you
used to be in the past or what you used to do. We can’t change what happened in the
past but we can surely learn from it. You did what you did
then based on what you knew but now that you know better, you certainly are
doing better than you did in the past. Don't let anyone judge you based on your
past, if anyone must judge you at all, let them judge you based on the present
and what your potential is for the future. It was Oprah Whinfrey that famously
declared “When I think about my twenties and what a foolish girl I was and how
I would give over my power to men who really didn’t mean me well… But now I
hold no grudges against them either because I realize I’m the one who gave over
the power because I didn’t know any better. And now that I know better I know I
don’t have to do that again. It’s one of the most powerful lessons any of us
can ever know.” You like Oprah can also make your own famous declaration and
let past things live in the past. Today we are different people. Today we know better,
and because we know better, we do better.
Until I come your way
again, this is #MorningVibesWithDrJerryTheFirst
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