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Morning Vibes With Dr Jerry-The First-Episode 17

Morning Vibes With Dr. Jerry - the First Hello and welcome to #MorningVibesWithDrJerryTheFirst-Episode 17 Title:          Your Worst Bullies 3 - Your Inactions! The last of the worst bullies for any man or woman is his/her "Inactions" I grew up knowing that what distinguishes the rich from the poor is a 6-letter word "action". It is not for nought that the maxim has it "Action is everything" and this is tied to how our brains are wired. It is said that the spirit may be willing but the flesh is weak, but those who have conquered life have learnt to move the flesh in its weakness and subject it to the willing spirit. Those who watch their dreams evaporate like the early morning dew when the sun comes out are those who refuse to submit the unwilling body to the willing spirit. Their inactions constitute their worst bully. They wake up daily determined to do something to move their lives forward, but at the slightest...

Morning Vibes With Dr Jerry-The First-Episode 16

Morning Vibes With Dr. Jerry - the First Hello and welcome to #MorningVibesWithDrJerryTheFirst-Episode 16 Title:          Your Worst Bullies 2 - Your Thoughts! In continuation of our talk on Bullies which started two days ago, I want to briefly talk on Your Thoughts as a mental bully to you. After reading the book titled "As A Man Thinketh" by James Allen, I couldn't help but agree that what the Good Book says "As a man thinketh in his heart, so is he". Our thoughts flowing from the deep recesses of our unconscious and subconscious minds are the architects or our fortune or misfortune and this is simply because, those thoughts are what guide our tongues in producing words in our mouths and actually saying them out. Again the Good Book says that "out of the abundance of the heart, the mouth speaketh" meaning that any heart that is suffused with darkness and negative thoughts would usually spill out negative words ...

Morning Vibes With Dr Jerry-The First-Episode 15

Morning Vibes With Dr. Jerry - the First Hello and welcome to #MorningVibesWithDrJerryTheFirst-Episode 15 Title:          Your Worst Bullies 1 - Your Mindset! Yesterday, I shared with you my experience with a physical bully way back in my High School days. But I did tell you that even though physical bullies do hurt us, the ones that hurt us the most are the mental or psychological bullies and today I want to discuss one of them - Your Mindset. I am sure that you are not a stranger to the fact that human beings are made up of an "organ" which is not like other organs of the body - the Mind. You also know that there is the conscious and the pre-conscious (sub-conscious) and the unconscious mind. Your conscious mind is what most people associate with who you are, because that is where most people live day to day. But it’s by no means where all the action takes place. Your conscious mind is a bit like the captain of ...

Morning Vibes With Dr Jerry-The First-Episode 14

Morning Vibes With Dr. Jerry - the First Hello and welcome to #MorningVibesWithDrJerryTheFirst-Episode 14 Title:          Your Worst Bullies Are Inside Of You!! In the High School, I was the Class Prefect from Class 1 to Class 4 (I dropped that in Class 5 to pick up the School Prefectship) and in my Class, there was a huge guy who was my class mate. He was far older than me of course and quite big for his age though. He was always making noise when the Teacher was not around and each time I asked him to stop making noise, he would threaten to deal with me after School. I was not the only one he bullied by way of words, other students both in my Class and other Classes had a taste of his bullying attitude. One day, he just decided to disturb the entire class at every small provocation, I had no other choice but to report him to the Form Master, who called him to the Staff Room and gave him 12 strokes of the cane on...