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Morning Vibes With Dr Jerry - The First-Episode 104/Fix Your Faults First





Sunday  17th December 2017

Morning Vibes With Dr. Jerry - the First

Hello and welcome to #MorningVibesWithDrJerryTheFirst-Episode 104

Title:          Are You Fixing The Faults In Your Life Or Finding Fault In Other People's Lives?

The other day, I sat at the left of 2 grown up Ladies who DID NOT stop talking from when they boarded until we landed. I need to do a study on why people talk too much (lolz) but I mean, 2 persons who apparently were not strangers to one another and who also were not long lost friends, talking NON-STOP for more than 1 hour. It beat me, at a point I wanted to interject but I decided to mind my own business before I incur their wrath and then my action might be misinterpreted or misunderstood. And you know what beat me silly? They spoke of nothing concrete, nothing to better their lives (may be they are better already I don't know), nothing to better the society, nothing to add value to anything. Do you know what they spent an hour plus talking about - persons they know. They will pick one person and tear her down to shreds, why she has failed, why her Sun has not risen, why she is as she is, why no one wants her, why she cannot do better than she has done already; gosh!!! They were busy ex-raying the lives of others, finding their faults and even proffering solutions even though those concerned were not present at the meeting held on their behalf. Idle chatter, little talk, gossip, or whatever name it is given is practiced by people with low self esteem. Do you know that the fault you see in another is the same exact fault that you have? Have you heard the adage that says that "a head cutter does not allow anyone with a cutlass to go behind him" That which you accuse and judge others for and find them guilty, you are also guilty if not more! If you have a log of wood in your eyes, there's no way you can see clearly in order to remove the speck in another person's eyes, so what you need to do is to first remove the log from your own eyes, then you will see clearly to be able to remove the spec from your neighbour's eyes. So try and mind your own business, stop running people down, stop destroying people's characters because you feel that they have done far better than you. Check your own faults, deal with them first, and then go about your own business. Nobody is in this world to live up to your own expectations, only you can live up to your own expectations. The world would definitely be a better place to live in if we all dealt with our faults first and foremost.

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