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Morning Vibes With Dr. Jerry - the First - Episode 219/Where Does The Greatest Conflict Reside?





Friday                            20th  April 2018

Morning Vibes With Dr. Jerry - the First

Hello and welcome to #MorningVibesWithDrJerryTheFirst-Episode 219

Title:          Where Does The Greatest Conflict Reside?

As human beings we are hard wired on certain things? Have you asked yourself why that is so?
When you catch yourself doing exactly the opposite of what you intended to do, did you ask yourself why?
Have you ever wondered why you walk in a certain way, speak in a certain way, eat in a certain way and even relate in a certain way?

Being alive is like a warfare, there are conflicts on daily basis to be resolved, we are forced to make choices and even when we decide not to make any choice, that on its own is also a choice.

Where do these daily conflicts reside?
Where do they originate from?
At what point shall we be free of these conflicts?

The answer my friend is right here
THE MIND

The Mind is YOUR Battleground, it's where the greatest conflict resides

Deep down you know it’s OK to...
Say “no”
Speak up
Tell the truth
Believe differently
Change your mind
Prioritize your needs
Learn from your mistakes
Embrace your imperfections
Forgive and seek forgiveness
Begin again, stronger than before
Yet, you often seek the exact opposite when life gets stressful and you’re under pressure.

You do the wrong things even when you know better.

The mind is indeed your battleground! Because it has so many little weaknesses.

It becomes very forgetful and insensible when it’s stressed.
And the only way to conquer these weaknesses is to practice conquering them—to practice thinking better.

What you need to remember is that the mind operates like a muscle, and just like every muscle in the human body, it needs to be exercised to gain and maintain strength.

It needs to be trained daily to grow and develop gradually over time.
 If you haven’t pushed the mind in lots of little, positive ways over the course of time, of course it’ll crumble on the inevitable days that get overwhelmingly stressful.

The most significant hidden benefit of exercising your mind and THINKING BETTER?

Renewing your trust in yourself, so you can LIVE BETTER.

In fact, sometime in my past, while  I was struggling to get my life back on track was the trust that I was actually capable of achieving positive results in my life.

I had made so many foolish little mistakes in the past, and had grown so discouraged in myself, that I started subconsciously choosing procrastination over future attempts to fulfill the promises I made to myself.

In essence, I lost trust in both my abilities and myself.

It’s kind of like another person constantly lying to you—eventually you stop trusting them.
The same holds true with the promises you make to yourself that always end in disappointment. Eventually, you stop trusting yourself.

And the solution in most cases is the same too: you have to renew your trust gradually, with small shifts in your thinking, small steps forward, and small victories. Of course, this process takes time, but it happens relatively fast if you stick to it. And it’s arguably one of the most important, life-changing things you can do for yourself.

Bottom line: The greatest conflict always resides in your mind first. You are what you think—you can’t change anything if you can’t change your thinking!

But, the good news is YOU CAN change your thinking!

And when you change the way you think, you can master a new way to be.

And that’s why we made THINKING BETTER the foundation of our 1st quarter activities.

I do hope you are benefiting from these podcasts. Please feel free to get in touch with us for anything you need to live the life you have always wanted to live. We are only an email away.

Until I come your way again, this is #MorningVibesWithDrJerryTheFirst

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