Monday 2nd October 2017
Morning Vibes With Dr. Jerry - the First
Hello and welcome to
#MorningVibesWithDrJerryTheFirst-Episode 28
Title: Beware
Of That Friend!!
Like all grown ups know,
growing up is a time to experiment and test all the devils to distinguish the
lesser devils from the deadly ones, it's a time to try all things
"tryable" with the hope of arriving at a fair decision of what works
and what does not work. Growing up could also be a terrible experience if one
meets up with the wrong company because as the Good Book says it "evil
communication corrupts good manners" which means that when one is
constantly in the company of evil doers, it impacts greatly on him or her
irrespective of his or her resolve not to be tainted with evil. There is also
the popular saying "show me your friend and I will tell you who you are",
invariably therefore a man's friend is a shadow of who the man really is. It
follows that to be "good", one must of a necessity be in the company
of "good people". Socioscientists have proven that "a man is the
average of 5 persons he hangs out with" and since a man cannot hang out
with his enemies, it means that those persons he hangs out must be his friends.
So which kind of friends are you hanging out with? Your friend could make or
mar you. If you constantly find yourself in the company of whiners, complainers
and wailers when you don't want to wail, complain or whine, then you are in the
wrong company and need to ship out. If your friend is always finding fault with
your actions, not encouraging you to launch out, always reminding you of how those
who tried doing what you want to do in the past had failed, you are better off
with an enemy than that friend, infact he is more of a frenemy than a friend,
you need to port from him. Beware of the friend that belittles you all the
time, beware of the friend that takes your self confidence away, beware of the
friend that wants to mummy you and be your spokesvoice, beware of the friend
that asks you to take a back seat while he is moving ahead making plans for the
two of you. Such friendship is dangerous and harmful. Look again at the friends
you have in your life, is any out of line with your vision, drop them now like
a hot charcoal, if your friend is not complementing you, you need another
friend because just as the Good Book also says "as iron sharpeneth iron,
so a man the countenance of his friend"
Until I come your way
again, this is #MorningVibesWithDrJerryTheFirst
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