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Morning Vibes With Dr Jerry - The First-Episode 70/Make The Days Count





Monday     13th November 2017

Morning Vibes With Dr. Jerry - the First

Hello and welcome to #MorningVibesWithDrJerryTheFirst-Episode 70

Title:          Instead Of Counting The Days, Make The Days Count!!

There is no grown up person who does not have a tale to tell and it doesn't matter its nature but it's still a tale anyways. And this may not even apply to only grown ups. The other day I was attending a program in a Secondary School and I overhead some "senior boys" discussing how it was like in the junior classes, I overhead one say "when I WAS in JSS 3, it was like this and like that; I put the word WAS in capital letter because that is where the tales come from - the past. Some people call it reminiscences and others call it memoirs but whatever term is used to describe it, it usually is a recount of how "good" the "gone days" were  and how worse the "now days" are. When a man or woman as the case may be gets to the level where the past is more appealing than the present, then s/he has completely resigned to fate and is waiting for the last call. Nothing can kill a man slowly and even a woman like constantly living in the past and neglecting to live in the present. He Who formed us gave us eyes (two big eyes) but He did not place them at the back nor on the sides, He placed them right in front, it is reasoned that the main aim of placing the eyes in front is to emphasize the need for the owners to look forward in everything that concerns life and living. If eyes were placed behind, then there, would have served as the front of the owner but no, they are in the front emphasizing the fact that no matter how sweet the past was, if it is gone, then it is gone and the only way forward is the present leading out to the future. If your days are drab and you keep living in the past, then you are only counting the days as they go by; but if you live in the present and no matter how drab the days want to be, you bring some semblance of activity to spice them up, then you are able to make the days count. Making the days count does not only mean making yourself happy, it includes more of reaching out to someone and bringing a smile to that person. Making the day count could mean volunteering at a Community Centre for a non-stipendiary community service. Making the day count could mean visiting an orphanage and offering to just cheer the inmates up and help them to be happy for a season. Making the day count could mean going to the Hospital to chat up those whose legs are suspended in the air and who are dying to have someone to talk to them and tell them that it is okay and that life would get back to normal. There are loads of ways to make the day count. So rather than being so self-absorbed and thus end up counting the days, be other-absorbed and help put a smile on someone's face. The reward is certainly eternal.

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