Sunday 1st April 2018
Morning Vibes With Dr. Jerry - the First
Hello and welcome to
#MorningVibesWithDrJerryTheFirst-Episode 200
Title: Life Versus Lifestyle
There is
a difference but what constitutes a life and what constitutes a lifestyle is
pretty ambiguous.
One thing
that seems pretty clear to me is the lifestyle is observable while a life can
have many internal aspects to it.
A
lifestyle can include people, material things, environments, how we spend our
time, energy, and money.
A life
includes things like our beliefs, our values, our commitments, our soul's
dream, and our vision.
If you
choose a lifestyle first you could wind up with an empty fortress. If you
choose the life first, you will design your lifestyle to support the life.
Since
most of us already have a lifestyle, and a default life, we usually have to do
some redesign work.
Choose a
life and then redesign our lifestyle.
It is
possible that the lifestyle you currently have will never support the life you
truly want to live.
It is possible the lifestyle you currently
have has many supporting structures and only minor renovations need to occur.
It is
possible that you are a highly intuitive person and your lifestyle is in
perfect alignment.
I know
very few people who fall into that category.
I know a
couple that decided at the commencement of their marriage to structure their
lives around their spiritual values. and lived true to it.
They made
a decision and a choice and their choice guided their actions, which made them
become fulfilled people.
They are
able to impact on younger generation through having transformational conversations which made learning
a very different process then than it is
now.
The fact
that we have e-courses and teleclasses and magazines and tons of books that are
created to help people learn to live more meaningful and personally fulfilling
lives represents a shift from how things use to be.
As we evolve we begin to look at various aspects
of our lives for congruence to our values and commitments. The disparity shows
up with exclamation marks behind them and sometimes our response is
discouragement and self-disappointment.
We act as
if we should have known better when the truth is how could we have known
better?
So the
first thing to get over is "I didn't know" and then after we get over
that we come to "but I know now...now what?" It takes a courageous
person to see this and then set their intentions on bringing integrity into
their life so that their lifestyle gives them a life that serves their higher
self.
You will
notice some people trying to work around it, pretending it doesn't matter that
their lifestyles don't measure up to their core values.
The real problem is once you see the
inconsistency, not doing anything actually makes things worse and you lose
ground really fast. It cost you big time to keep that inconsistency in place.
You can't be with yourself and be at peace in your life. It wears you down like
water will wear down a mountain over time. Your life will devolve instead of
evolve. If that is not a price that's too high to pay, I don't know what is.
Just think about it and choose wisely the path you will follow.
Until I come your way
again, this is #MorningVibesWithDrJerryTheFirst
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